Where I've been

My father died unexpectedly the first week of April, three days before I was scheduled to leave for the Conference on World Affairs. The day before I left, my dog Frances surreptitiously ate two containers of dog treats in my parents' garage and nearly exploded, but after an emergency trip to the vet she's now OK (and seven pounds lighter). At my mom's insistence I went to Boulder (with "Chinatown") and then we had the reception for my dad at their house (there was no funeral or memorial service -- he didn't want 'em) when I got back. Two days after that, it was off to Ebertfest, where I was greatly heartened to see Roger Ebert in such high spirits. So, that's what's been going on. Hope to get back to posting regularly now...

23 Comments

By girish on May 7, 2007 2:56 PM

Jim, I'm so sorry--my deep condolences!

By carlos on May 7, 2007 3:04 PM

My condolences Jim. May your father rest in peace.

By Dennis Cozzalio on May 7, 2007 3:22 PM

Jim, there are never words good enough to say, so I'll just hope for you and your mom all good memories of your dad and that they'll be with you both always.

By pacheco on May 7, 2007 4:05 PM

Good to have you back; I hope things are better.

At least the void in my RSS aggregator can now be re-occupied...

By jim emerson on May 7, 2007 4:15 PM

Thanks all -- it's been a tough month and I've barely had time to "process." But I continue to find my mom an amazing inspiration!

By Damian on May 7, 2007 7:15 PM

I am very sorry for your loss, Jim.

You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

By Tucker (cineboy) on May 7, 2007 8:05 PM

You've have a difficult time lately. Unfortunately, I know all too well how hard it can be. Hang in there. I only know a little about you through this blog. I can say that you are appreciated. Thank you for your candor.

By Joey on May 8, 2007 12:31 AM

My condolences, Jim.

By Brandon Colvin on May 8, 2007 1:08 AM

I'm sorry to hear about your father. I hope you make it through okay. Family, friends, and films are good to keep around in times of emotional strain and that seems to be what you've done. I think a lot of readers here truly care about you, myself included, and having a community of support like that, regardless of remoteness, is hopefully valuable and helpful.

By Peter Nellhaus on May 8, 2007 4:09 AM

My condolences to you at this time.

By Ted Pigeon on May 8, 2007 6:28 AM

All the best, Jim.

By steve on May 8, 2007 10:09 AM

Very sorry to hear of your father's passing, but glad that Frances is OK and glad that you are back from what must have been a stressful month. I think we all look forward to more of your great insight and bloggings -

By Billyeveryteen on May 8, 2007 11:04 AM

Sorry about your Dad, Dude.

The Dead-Dad-Club is by far, one of the sh*tiest.

By Keith Uhlich on May 8, 2007 12:32 PM

My thoughts are with you Jim. Keep on soldiering...

By Garry Evens on May 8, 2007 3:25 PM

Sorry for your loss, Jim.

By rob on May 8, 2007 6:37 PM

Words can't express the loss you must be feeling. My deepest wishes for you.

By Erwin on May 9, 2007 1:22 AM

My sincere condolences. Wish you strength

By John on May 9, 2007 10:22 AM

Deepest condolences, Jim.

By Peet on May 9, 2007 2:16 PM

He must have been a pretty cool guy to raise such a kid. Take care, Jim... I'll be looking forward to every post--we missed you, man!

By Bob on May 9, 2007 9:07 PM

My condolences as well. And, yeah, your pop obviously did something right.

I have a quite aged father myself and who knows how I'll handle it when the time comes. Anyhow, I too am glad you're dog didn't explode. Unexploded dogs are much more fun.

By Phillip Kelly on May 10, 2007 12:49 PM

"There is no cure for birth and death save to enjoy the interval." George Santayana (1863 - 1952)

Here's hoping he enjoyed it.

Take care over there.

By Tim on May 12, 2007 12:57 AM

My condolences. Great to see you keeping optimistic though.

By Erin on May 16, 2007 3:45 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss, Jim.