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September 29, 2006

Friday's column: Breast-feeding is the new labor

Our mothers think we're crazy. Though few of them had full-time careers while they were pregnant and raising infants, they did all have lives, they tell us now. They went places. Did things. Drank coffee. Had cocktails. They were not, in other words, breast-feeding their babies every two hours.

And somehow, they kindly point out, those babies survived. Nurtured on powdered formula and instant cereal, we grew into healthy, successful adults.

In response, we just smile our smug, how-little-they-knew-then smiles. Because we'd sooner buy a flammable cradle with its razor-sharp edges coated in lead paint than give our own precious babies food from a can.

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September 26, 2006

As the mood swings

If last week's theme was [insert VERY whiny tone here] "this is hard," this week the pregnancy pendulum has swung back to Everything Zen-ness, which is a lucky thing for all concerned.

I remember a particular moment at my wedding when I looked down at my shoes and realized that I'd been wearing very high heels for several straight hours. "It's odd," I thought, "that my feet don't hurt."

Well, I haven't seen my feet in a while, but, in the last few days, I've experienced that same sort of realization, that, wow, I should be really, really uncomfortable, but, mostly, I'm just not. Instead, I seem to enjoying things (OK, mostly sleep and food . . . and weird "nesting" things like re-arranging our bookshleves) in a strangely outsized way.

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September 24, 2006

Sunday Lunch with Sugar Rautbord

Sugar Rautbord is running a little late for lunch because, well, she had the Trumps at 11. And, the long pause from her assistant implies, you know how that can be.

Still, she has already arrived at RL, the clubby restaurant attached to Michigan Avenue's flagship Polo store, when I get there for our appointment. She has not, of course, taken a seat at our table -- the one that magically became available when I dropped her name in making the reservation -- but is, the host tells me, "visiting."

Nearly everyone in the crowded dining room seems to know Sugar, or to want to, so she flutters happily between the tables, offering smiles and personal greetings and more than a few of those oddly charming air kisses one generally associates with high society.

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September 22, 2006

Friday's column: The return of the skinny black pant

"It's back!" declares the beautiful, artsy poster on bus shelters and billboards around town.

And though I know I'm supposed to react with relief, even joy, at the news of this return to a simpler, lovelier fashion sensibility, instead I find myself griping about it.

In an ad campaign featuring the timelessly beautiful Audrey Hepburn, the Gap has decreed that the skinny black pant is back.

But, really, did anyone miss the skinny black pant? Had anyone even noticed its absence?

Have there been great sighs of relief from tall, thin women -- that incredibly underserved fashion demographic -- as billboards have gone up all over Chicago to announce that the Gap has revived a style of trousers that looks good on approximately 1 percent of the population? Did the Audrey Hepburns of the world just not have enough fashion options?

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September 21, 2006

My blog ate my homework

How long has it been since my last confession . . . er, blog? Entirely too long, obviously, since I am getting e-mails from friends and readers asking if I am still alive.

I am. Really.

My days are just . . . a little different right now.

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September 17, 2006

Sunday Lunch with Stephen J. Cannell

Throughout most of the 1980s -- the height of his TV production career -- Stephen J. Cannell had five or six shows on the air simultaneously.

Then, on a single Friday in 1990, he had two pilots rejected by the networks and five of his six existing shows were canceled. The following Monday, he had two new development deals in place.

Stephen J. Cannell, is, in other words, a Player.

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September 15, 2006

Friday's column: Every 17 years

Once in 17 years. That little statistical gem got tossed around a lot this week, with Mayor Daley's first veto of a City Council resolution. And it makes you wonder if, cicadalike, the mayor will now wait until 2023, when he's serving his 10th term in office, to once again publicly demonstrate his mastery of the whole checks-and-balances-in-government concept.

Political insiders are suggesting that Daley got a big rush out of the whole veto thing -- or, more specifically, out of taking in the spectacle of aldermen pulling off John-Kerry-in-a-yoga-class contortions of logic to justify changing their minds about the big-box ordinance they had originally supported -- and that now that he's had a taste of what it's like to bend the Council to his will after they vote on something, he's likely to trot out the big red veto stamp more often.

(Of course, political insiders also point out that there is no actual big red veto stamp, like the one I remember quite distinctly from the "I'm Just A Bill" episode of Schoolhouse Rock. This is why political insiders are generally no fun at parties.)

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September 12, 2006

Are we baby nurse people?

There was a single moment, about 18 months ago, when I became absolutely certain that I was marrying the right guy.

It was a Saturday morning, and, true to all demographic cliches, we were sitting at Starbucks. We'd made an appointment to meet a wedding planner there.

The woman was lovely. Bright pink pashmina and matching tote bag lovely.

But, after about 30 minutes of conversation with her, we shook her hand and said goodbye. And, as soon as she was out of earshot, R. looked at me and said, "We are not wedding planner people."

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September 10, 2006

Sunday Lunch with Stacy Keach

Beneath the white beard and the slightly disheveled white hair, Stacy Keach has a familiar face.

His career, he says good-naturedly, has evolved from "'Oh, he used to play Mike Hammer' to 'Oh yeah, that's Titus' dad' to 'Oh, he's the warden on "Prison Break."'"

"That's all OK," Keach says, taking off his black "Prison Break" baseball cap and the Goodman Theater credentials he wears around his neck and settling comfortably into a large, corner booth at Petterino's.

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September 08, 2006

Friday's column: Celebrating a 9/11 baby's birthday

McKayla Montgomery turns 5 on Monday. Born at 9:44 am on Sept. 11, 2001, McKayla knows there is something a little different about her birthday, but isn't sure exactly what.

"People do pause when you tell them," says McKayla's mom, Mary. "Or they say, 'Oh, I'm sorry.' They have a sense of sorrow about that day."

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September 06, 2006

Party like it's 1984

Imagine, for a moment, that some foreign country -- let's say Iran, since they make for an excellent enemy -- decided to seize a bunch of American citizens, throw them into a detention camp and hold them there, calling them terrorists or spies but not officially charging them with anything, for years at a time.

You have to believe that we'd be pretty ticked off about it. Maybe call it a hostage crisis. Maybe even invade.

I offer up that not-at-all-original scenario as just one more thing to think about in considering what is to be done with the "enemy combatants" being held at Guantanamo Bay.

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September 04, 2006

Why a person should be fully awake when listening to NPR

It's a holiday, so I get to engage in my very favorite morning routine: total sloth.

Basically, I stay in bed and listen to a full hour of public radio before I'll even consider getting up. In that half-awake state, my brain tends to do interesting things with what I hear. And I often spend the day wondering if I really know something -- Steve Irwin killed by stingray?! -- or if I've just imagined it, based on some dream that started in the middle of a news story.

During this morning's broadcast, I drifted along for a while with thoughts about one of Chicago Public Radio's big sponsors, Angie's List.

I've never used Angie's List, which offers recommendations on contractors, plumbers and other services, and I'm sure it's all wonderfully helpful. But I have a distinctly bad impression of "the list," as it is referred to by insiders, based on some neighbors who seem to be obsessed with it. For them, Angie's List approval is pretty much the only acceptable criteria upon which a decision can be based. Not price, certainly. Not local word-of-mouth or gut feeling. Only the consensus of the all-powerful list. So I've started to think of the people who participate in the list-making as all being just as neurotic and approval-starved as these neighbors.

This notion was knocking around in my head when it occurred to me that, in a very real sense, Craigs List is the absolute opposite of Angie's List.

And, although the lack of an apostrophe does bother me slightly, R. and I are commitedly Craigs List people. We bought our car through Craigs List. And (yes, I totally caved) our baby's crib, too. And we're using it to search for baby nurses and nannies.

Suddenly, it became clear to me that there are two types of people in the world. They are Angie's List people. We are Craigs List people.

From there, I envisioned a whole scenario in which "Craig" actually attempted to date "Angie" and things, of course, went horribly badly. Because he was all, "Let's try this place for dinner . . . ." and she was all, "No way. Three people in Lincoln Park had bad shrimp there in 1997."

Not strange enough for you? Here's another NPR-inspired mental trip I took this morning . . . .

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September 03, 2006

Sunday Lunch with Leeza Gibbons

Leeza Gibbons, as you have probably long suspected, is very, very nice.

At 48, she is unchanged from her days as the anchor of "Entertainment Tonight" and the host of the daytime talk show "Leeza," her slim figure cloaked in a blue wrap dress and her unlined face framed by flawlessly straightened hair. She is also, from the moment I walk into 437 Rush to meet her, absolutely "on."

"You have a great life," she gushes as I sit down, raving about how much fun it must be to eat lunch and read chick lit for a living.

She has done her homework, reading up on past columns, and is in full-on charm mode. She even smells sweetly fabulous, like a combination of baby skin and fresh flowers.

And if all her niceness is meant to result in a ridiculously friendly interview, it's totally working.

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September 01, 2006

Friday's column: Politicians find novel way to bond with nerds

Mayor Daley, in a moment of uncharacteristic candor, was bold enough to admit this week that he had "not yet" had a chance to read the latest "One Book, One Chicago" selection: Jhumpa Lahiri's Interpreter of Maladies. With the holiday weekend coming up, plus the very long flight on his planned I'm-cool-like-Obama trip to Ghana, I'm sure he'll have a chance to get to it soon. After all, the pressure's on.

President Bush upped the summer reading ante this year, when, in early August, he announced that he'd read Albert Camus' The Stranger. Since then, public figures everywhere have been scrambling to find "smart" books to tuck under their arms and tote around.

This weekend, as summer winds down, it might even be time for a few of the more conscientious among them to crack open a cover or two.

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August 29, 2006

Obama in Kibera

I've been lucky enough, when "the news" has touched my life at all, to be on this side of it, the side that gets to tell the story. And, somehow, because I always felt like I was at least trying to be fair and accurate, I never truly understood where the popular conception that we in the dreaded MainStreamMedia can't be trusted to get things right.

But in reading and seeing the coverage of Senator Obama's trip to Africa, I increasingly have the sense we, collectively, come up short in telling some of the most important truths.

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