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He wants to marry a hairdresser

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"Film is the medium that gives room to our fantasies, most of the time harmless, since they are fantasies. The cinema is often more beautiful than life, if only because we write the screenplay." - Leconte


The Hairdresser's husband (1990) is a film so fantastical, so sensual, so romantic, that you can not help but sigh in ached longing...a longing that, deep down, you know is untouchable, but how good it is to be drenched so thoroughly in it in a French hairdressing salon, on sunny afternoons and stormy nights?


Dreamers. Lovers. However they came to be we do not know, and it does not matter. They are so content together, indeed so happy that they seem immune to the ravishing of life's toil. Passion consumes their lives. The day begins with it, and ends with it.

Throughout, its perfume permeates the air as sunlight streams through the window and sets her honey brown hair aflame. Her voluminous waves glowing, and the light stir as she moves, from the counter to the door, to the shampoo to the chair, to the door as the customer leaves, and she returns to her counter. The light and perfume stir with each step, whisper between them, around them.


He watches from the red sofa, knowing full well that this is exactly where he wants to be, where he should be. She looks up from the counter, a wordless smile passes between them, shared, stretching on like hot caramel with the passing of daylight. Little smiles and glances of joy spill unabashedly, so over-brimming of hearts that they drip like pearls with the streaming light, and are finally gathered again at the end of the day. Dusk falls, the door closes after the last customer. She hikes up her dress and unbuttons her blouse. He stands up from the red sofa. Passion leads day into night, and then begins all over again.


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He is Antoine (Jean Rochefort), and we watch his whole life solidify in front of our eyes. Growing up, he was a curious little boy with a peculiar sense of rhythm. He dances to middle eastern melodies urgently, shaking his limbs spasmodically to the beat as he pleases, as if through the movement he makes sense of life and its joy. His other joy is going to the hairdresser, Madame Schaeffer, a middle age woman with voluptuous curves and creamy skin. Standing in front of her, he is a tiny creature, though that does not hinder his fascination with her body, her smell, the feel of her hands through his hair as she washes it. Perhaps he senses vaguely, even as young as he is, that there is something in a woman's touch that is important to be understood, to be wanted and valued. One day, a most fortuitous moment presents itself: an unclasped button in her blouse catches his glance, and reveals the object of that vague desire he harbored. Some things in life do not require much explanation. Naturally, he decides right then and there to dedicate the rest of his life to the pursuit of that desire.


She is Mathilde (Anna Galiena), and we walk into the midst of her life. A beautiful, beautiful mystery. She is a lone hairdresser. In her pressed white dress, she glides through the salon, greeting customers, gently grooming each of them, allowing them to emerge polished and soothed. So goes a tepid life. One day, Antoine spots her across the street, and is immediately entranced. He walks in and asks for a cut. She responds that she has a pending appointment, and to come back in half an hour. He obliges, and watches from across the street. No one comes. No matter. He re-enters after 25 minutes passed. That is all they will ever spend apart. In the midst of the cut, he asks her to marry him. She carries on without aflutter. Did she hear him? What was she thinking? They part ways as if nothing ever transpired. Though he knew that he needed to have her. Two weeks later he returns, and she stops him: Did you mean it when you asked me to marry you? Before he can answer and with a slight quiver in her voice, she continues: If the offer still stands, I will marry you.


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A little boy smiles. Happiness forms like alchemy. Just like that.


"I don't like sports or traveling," he says. "I don't like going out either." "I'll do the shopping and correspondence." "There is a small flat upstairs." "The past is dead." "Absolutely." Just like that. They settled all the minuscule details of their passion, and left only the grandiose to simmer from then onwards. Even on their wedding day, when a customer walks in unknowingly, Mathilda graciously performs her vocation in her wedding dress, radiant all along. The man becomes startled by his own appearance after a shave, perhaps seeing his real self for the first time -- a problem that never plagued Antoine and Mathilda. They both knew what they wanted. They saw their life together for exactly what it is: a willing nest of self-entrapment; A cocoon of self-invented paradise. She is perfection in his eyes, immune from rigors of social conventions: "lose half a pound and I'll throw myself under the bus." His adoration is perfection in her eyes, and she doesn't trust it: "Promise me, the day you don't love me anymore, you won't pretend to."


Their love began without hesitation and continued without interruptions. It is an all-consuming love. Any potential intermediary is brushed aside. No children to deform Mathilda's smooth belly. No friends to bridge the non-existent gulf between them. They are happy together, and that is all that matters.


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"One day I'll buy a lottery ticket. Just one. I'll hit the jackpot. We'll cruise down the Nile. We'll dance on a paddle-steamer, from morning to night, together. Watching the sun go down behind the pyramids!" He dreamed.


Mathilda hugged him tight, trying to crush herself into his luminous vision, but she never fitted completely. She was the cloud to which his silver linings embellished. Her natural melancholy and grace that attracted him so fatally were her own fatal folly. They never could be washed away by his quirky dances and adoring gazes, no matter how sunny they were.


His folly is his greatest strength. He has always lived in accordance to his one, intense, focused desire: to marry a hairdresser. Lucky for him, he understood the key to his happiness at an early age, and followed it to unlock its door. Mathilda, on the other hand, came upon hers by accident. "I've never felt like I belonged with anyone," she confessed. Now that happiness is within her grasp, she is as unsure about its potential departure as she is about its surprising arrival. In a way, Mathilda was dealt the less fortunate hand by fate, because she alone was aware of the threat of imperfection. Antoine didn't see it. Perhaps he was willingly blind to it. To him, this is life as it should be, the life he has always dreamed of, the life that he attained, and for him there would be no other way, ever.


In the end, the perfection that drew them together was the one that separated them at last. Tiny threats materialized: the gloom of aging, the hint of a storm, visions of domestic displeasure, a single quarrel. Threats of unhappiness floated like mirages on a summer day, visions of something that seem so real and yet so far, so far and yet so real. However, there they are, hanging. Is perfection destined to be temporary? What happens once we have reached that perfected state? Can there be anything but loss and decay? Will the disgust of life inevitably catch up...one day?


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"The Hairdresser's Husband" sweeps us away with not just its words, but its colors, its light, and its unmistakable eroticism. Eroticism is about what people think, not what they see. As the eye behind the camera, Patrice Leconte leads us with visions of what he sees, and leaves us with more of what he does not. With steady hands and voyeuristic angles, he evokes a sea of sensuality that ripples endlessly:


"Eroticism is, always, a subjective and personal vision and perception of things. I don't think there is a universal eroticism. There is a form of sensuality, desire - conveyed through some attitudes, some looks, clothes slightly yawning..tiny things most often, because I believe all comes down to a very simple principle: the oncoming of desire is infinitely more provoking than the acting out of desire."


Anna Galiena, with her red lips and crimson dress, made the world fall in love with a coiffeuse. And how could it have been any other way? Though it was revealed in an interview that she almost did not take on the role: "I didn't think I could do it. I am very clumpsy, very nervous, very modern. I had to act to be this woman...couldn't think of how to speak, how to be her." When she finally convinced herself, it was with the notion that she was such a hopeless actress that she may as well just try it to prove that she can't act, and then "it'll be over." Of course, she was wrong, despite being so right in every other way. Interestingly, this absolutist and idealist quality - that it is all or nothing, that it is worthy to die for a dream - seemed to echo within both her and Mathilda, and translated so beautifully onto screen. And Leconte matched that idealism. He asked her to prepare nothing before coming to Paris. He wrote her letters. He sent her a piece of music. On the set, they talked about sunsets.


Luminous and sunny, tragic and inevitable, is "The Hairdresser's Husband" a fantasy? Leconte answers sincerely:


"My film is as realistic as a naive painting, a miniature, a good painting can be realistic. Nothing leads us to assume we are confronted with a pure fantasy. But if somebody wants to see it that way, why not?"


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Leconte says that he worries about Antoine, because after reading Mathilda's note, seeing her body, knowing full well that she is gone from this world, he still tells a new customer that "the hairdresser will be back." But then again, why wouldn't he? Not even his dad's abrupt slap at the dinner table at 12 years old persuaded him any different. Staring up at the ceiling, young Antoine told himself right then and there, with full confidence, that "I had won. I would be a hairdresser's husband."


And so he was. Every day since. Every day with Mathilda. He was. And in his own luminous and sunny world, he always will be.


 
 

 
 

 
 

 
 

 
 


14 Comments

I have never heard of or seen this film, but I am going to change that right now.

Is it hot in here? Time to open a window or something after watching those clips...

Wow.

What a great review, Grace! Words. You sure know how to pick 'em. I didn't even have to watch the trailer to see the film you were describing - you'd painted it for me so vividly, already.

And it sounds like my cup of tea, moreover. Have you seen "Cairo Time?" It's more restrained but in terms of wordless communication and speaking through silent glances... it shares that.

The power to be found a single, lingering look.

So many directors these days, fail to recognize how much you can do with that, eh? I think that's why when someone does, it immediately catches your eye. At least mine.

I find silence to be one of the greatest things you can use in a film. That, and sunlight. Ooo, remember the blonde-haired boy standing in the water in the finale moments of "Death in Venice?" Sunlight all around him... youth and beauty personified?

Yet another film where silence was used. Ie: no dialogue.


So that's what you've been up to recently!

You've managed to convey all of the beauty and passion that this movie contains. I can tell even without having even seen it. I felt more as if I were experiencing this review than reading it.

Only at the end, where you (gasp!) reveal the ending, was my long revelry interrupted, my dream punctured by your words as completely as a needle punctures a balloon. But, even then, the words drifted along, like a thought being carried by the wind.

@ Marie Haws

I also love silence used in films. If you see Miyazaki's films in their original Japanese, you'll see that Disney adds in sounds (sometimes) in his films, as if kids can't stand silence.

Also, you mention sunlight, but rain is another effect that can be used incredibly well in films (snow, too), as in Rashomon (and the latter in It's a Wonderful Life).

I think Waking Life mentioned that movies is what happens in the space between people, so it IS surprising that more directors don't recognize the power that can be unleashed in a single look. But when they do, man!

And now you've made me want to seek out Death in Venice, too. :-)

What can I say, Wang? Well I can say this: I'm not getting this movie on Netflix because of Roger. I'm getting it because of you. I know Catt's gonna love it.

Since the first time I saw this film, I was mesmerized by Mathilda and the relationship of this couple. My reaction to the film made it that much more poignant and affecting. This is a wonderful introduction and I encourage anyone who hasn't seen it to do so at once!

I saw this movie when it was first released in the U.S., and I loved it. I give it about five thumbs up.

@Sean, *ahem* I take no responsibility for those clips. Roger took the liberty to add them and Leconte took the liberties to make them...so um...yeah...open a window or something...

@Marie, I think you'll like this one. I know what you mean about Cairo Time and the longing looks, but I had problem with that film, especially the ending. Another topic for another time.

You're so right about silence and sunlight though. Used in the right combo, it can be fatal (what a great way to go).

@Litdreamer, oops, I should put a spoiler warning on the piece I guess...

@Tom, Catt will love it! Get a nice bottle of red. Perfect date night.

@ Dave, Gary, glad to hear that you share my sentiments.

Thanks everyone.

Ebert: That is the movie and those are the clips. Check it out. It's sweet, romantic and sad.

Beautiful review Grace. I've been in love with this wonderful film since it made both Roger and Gene's top ten that year. For me, the director Patrice Leconte is one of France's most unrecognized talents. Each one of his films is a unique and memorable experience. I would also recommend Monsieur Hire, The Widow of Saint Pierre, The Man on the Train, and Intimate Strangers.

Ebert: Me too. And "Ridicule."

This is a great film, a beautiful film but I have always viewed it as a horror movie and I still do.

Gasp! This movie is not at my library!

Might have to spend some money and rent this one.

To Grace: The only film I've seen of his is "The Man on the Train," but that's one of my favorite movies of all-time and one of the absolute best of the 2000's as a decade in film. This seems very, very different, as this has a female lead (as my friend said, "Train" is very, very male) and it's very, as you say, "colorful" (whereas "Train" has a grey palate). I saw this at the video store a few days back and almost gave it a go and didn't, but now, after this excellent review and Ebert's Great Movie review, I will go for it. Looks like Wong Kar-Wai meets "Carpenter's Gothic" by Gaddis.

To Ebert: will you do a Great Movie review of "The Man on the Train"? It seems as if you liked it a lot, and since you did this film, maybe you could?

Ebert: I surely want to do another one of his films. Maybe The Widow of Saint-Pierre.

I watched this movie a few years ago and loved it! really good. Roger, I would love for you to do The Widow of Saint-Pierre! What a beautiful film. I can still closed my eyes and recalled the scenes...wonderfully done!

@Benita, why horror?

@Ron and @Nick, I have seen within this one film all that Leconte possess as a director - a sureness and intimacy that is astonishing. Roger's "Man on the Train" Great Movie review just makes me want to watch that film right. now.

Another tidbit. Anna Galiena said in the DVD special features interview that she first knew of Leconte through seeing "Monsieur Hire," after which she stumbled out of the theater in a daze, and stopped cold in the middle of a street and blurted aloud: "I have to work with him!" A few weeks later a photo of her landed in Leconte's hand and he found his coiffeuse, and neither of them could believe it. That earnest admiration of an artist at work is how I felt after seeing "The Hairdresser's Husband," and it's a feeling that I have a hunch each Leconte film will inspire, again and again, in its luminously unique way.

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